I came across this just now in my email file…and
realized it is a blog post just waiting to be posted. And so I will share it
with you:
As
part of the high school graduation festivities for Tyler, there was a Mothers' Tea.
They prepared a booklet of each graduate's thoughts about his/her
mom..."I'll always remember her smile", "I will show patience
and respect", "My mom would wish for me to live a life of success and
live in the Lord", "I will have Mom's determination", "I
want to be as beautiful and loving as Mom is" - all worthy and noble
thoughts.
But
not even a patch on Tyler's entry:
"I'll
always remember that, with discretion, she was never really afraid to tell
people exactly what she thought and exactly what they were doing that she
didn't approve of. I will argue like Mom, or at best handle my
complications in the same way."
I have
the best children, my Travis and Tyler. And God bless Tyler for noting
that I show discretion!
I remember that tea so well. All the moms were dressed
up, discrete tears were shed. I remember how I felt when I saw the booklet
stuffed inside a mug that each graduate had made for their mom. (I still have
mine.)
My hands were a little shaky – I really had no idea
what Tyler would say about me or his childhood. Would he remember how much I
loved him? Would he remember the good times with his brother, Travis, and his
dad? What would he take away from his childhood?
I found out, that day. And couldn’t be happier.
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